5 ways to impress on the first date

Everybody is always on their best behaviour when going on a first date, but even at that, there’s no guarantee that you’ll succeed in impressing the person you’re meeting.

So, what do you have to do to get it right?

Life Skills mentor, Manj Weerasekera, who helps people find new love after a divorce or the end of a long term relationship has a few tips for you.

Develop a solid self-image:You need to have a healthy self-image in order to make a great impression naturally. Therefore, before you leave on your date, you need to remind yourself: what’s great about you? Also, remember the times when you had your most successful dates. That will give you a positive boost.

Be a good communicator:This applies to both being great when speaking and when listening too. Pay real attention when your date is talking, so that they feel you’re actually interested in what they are saying. If you’re a little shy, paying attention will help you reveal what to ask them or speak about next. Also, attention is the key to charisma and unlocking chemistry. Try not to talk too much about previous relationships when you’re speaking, and do not talk negatively about them.

Reasons why you should have sex before marriage

*SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST.*

*I know some of you will crucify me before I drop the pen but my sister before you marry that guy please have sex with him to know if he is the type of man that can rise to the occasion in bed.

Don't let anybody to deceive you! If you marry an impotent man, a man who hates sex or a man who cannot satisfy you!

You will be the only one around to carry the cross.

Don't mind all these "Holy Mary" sisters! We know their story!!

Before marriage please try him out in bed! If you are the type that loves "Long John" in bed and your future husband is a tooth pick carrier what will you do?

If you are the type of woman who is freaky in bed and the man you married cannot even go down on you!

Who will you report to? Your Pastor, Alfa, Prophet, Imam, Dad or Mum etc to do it for YOU...!!!

Don't mind his "holy-holy" attitude, tell him to bring that thing out so you can see it with your eyes. Allow him to speak in tongues and when he is through tell him to battle you too in bed.

My brother please ignore all this "lets wait till our wedding night"! We are in the 21st century!